torn
torn — adjective
1. feeling emotionally unable to decide between two options, because each one has s
feeling emotionally unable to decide between two options, because each one has strong reasons that pull you in opposite directions
Hiro felt torn between staying near his family and accepting a job abroad.
torn + between [two gerund options]
The committee was torn over whether to fund the new school or the hospital.
torn + over + whether-clause
Yuki is torn about moving — more space would be nice, but the rent is higher.
Parents are often torn between giving their children freedom and protecting their safety.
After hours of discussion, Quinn remained torn over which university to attend.
- conflicted
more direct; emphasises the emotional struggle rather than the act of choosing
- divided
can refer to a group's disagreement, not just an individual's inner struggle
- undecided
neutral; lacks the emotional tension that torn implies
- uncertain
broader; does not necessarily involve two specific alternatives
文法句型
torn + between + [noun phrase / gerund] and [noun phrase / gerund]
torn + over + [wh-clause / noun phrase]
torn + about + [noun phrase / gerund]
用法筆記
Typically used predicatively after verbs like feel, be, or remain; almost always followed by between, over, or about to name the conflicting options. Unlike the past participle of tear (meaning ripped), this figurative sense cannot be used before a noun — for example, you cannot say a torn feeling.